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Simply put, fear is not sustainable. That’s because fear naturally deconstructs. And if you keep deconstructing anything - finances, relationships, jobs - eventually there’s not enough to hold it together, hold it up, or keep it intact.

Look at our global economic situation (it’s not been just America as a separate economic structure for a long time). Our fear around money is prompting some major deconstruction right now - we’re all feeling the impact on multiple levels.

We’re also witnessing the descent of individuals that we’ve judged as corrupt, and we readily acknowledge that corruption is built on greed. And greed, at its core, is based on fear - fear of not having enough money, prestige, influence, acknowledgment, etc.

What about relationships? When two people in any kind of a relationship are thinking, speaking and acting from fear - fear of not feeling safe, connected or valued - that relationship is destined for deconstruction. If it hangs in there for a while, it takes its toll on both parties - emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually.

On the other hand, Love is constructive. It builds and expands whatever is infused with it, and there’s no limit to the expansion.

(Remember that I might be talking about Love differently than you’re thinking right now. See the blog post http://todayichooselove.com/if-it-hurts-its-not-love)

Relationships that are based more solidly on Love than on fear are “evolutionary”: they’re safe places for people to grow and evolve more naturally and gracefully.

Money systems and companies that are based on service, community and, yes, LOVE, are not only sustainable, I believe they can experience unlimited growth, expansion, and more graceful evolution.

As we continue to deconstruct what’s been founded on fear, our best shot at making it through this turbulent time is to remember to choose Love as frequently as possible - in our thoughts, in our words and in our actions. Oversimplified? I don’t think so.

I understand that this is not such an easy task when there are so many Chicken Little’s flitting around, but I know it’s doable. Surround yourself with people who are seeing solutions, hope, and possibilities in our future, and it will be easier to reconstruct a sustainable collective mentality of choosing love - TODAY!

I’ve been talking to and hearing from lots of people in my network that are all saying the same thing: this is a tough time to be sensitive to other people’s energies.

When the news hit of the major plummet of the stock market, and then the world-wide ripples began trickling – or rather gushing – around the globe, I started feeling depressed. Then, as the days went by and the market dropped lower and lower, I felt even more fatigued and dragged out.

Even though my own financial situation has been adversely affected, too, that didn’t really feel like it explained the depths of my feelings.

Then it hit me – I was “channeling” the energy of everybody around me, and around the planet. This happened after Columbine, 9/11, the hurricanes and tsunamis, too. But I was far less aware of this acute empathetic response back then.

We are all – EVERY ONE OF US – sensitive to the energy around us, even if we can’t see it, touch it, or explain it. And each one of us is aware of it to different degrees.

Regardless of our ability to articulate it, we sense it. And it affects us. The less aware we are of what’s impacting our own energy, the lower our capacity to do anything positive about it.

It’s easy to just feel the collective fear and get sucked into it – the Chicken Little response of “OMIGOD, OMIGOD, OMIGOD!” When this “virus” spreads throughout the collective energy “pool” that we’re all swimming in, it’s real easy to catch it and fall ill, adding all our own fears to the epidemic.

The other option, which requires a lot of awareness and vigilance, is LOVE. My preferred form of LOVE at this time is a belief that we humans are extremely resilient. I have faith that we will – individually and collectively – learn something from this and come through it smarter and more evolved. Even just a little bit smarter and a little more evolved is still going in the right direction.

You might hear a bit of scoffing coming out of your mouth right now, which is also coming from fear. And that’s okay. I respect whatever choices you make in response to your own situation.

If you want a little immunity boost from the latest strain of the Fear Virus, though, I’d like to prescribe large doses of creativity and possibility thinking.

My personal response comes in the form of some questions (no surprise there!):

“How can I continue to do what I’m here to do and also take care of my own financial needs?”

“Even though I may have my own fears pop up now and then, how can I keep my vibration consistently high?”

“What are my options and what CAN I do about my own financial situation?”

“How can I stay focused on Love, Faith and Hope when Fear is blustering all around me, threatening to infect my Peace of Mind?”

“How can I maintain that Peace of Mind no matter what the economic situation is?”

“What can I do today to help others feel better and more confident about their lives and their options?”

I’m feeling better than I was a week ago – more in control of my own feelings and energy and life, and less at the unconscious mercy of other people’s fear-based choices.

Here’s the bottom line for me: I’d rather use this opportunity to get smarter and to create my own future with some Love and Joy, than let this latest Fear Virus create my future for me.